How to have the relationship talk with a guy

It’s the conversation everyone dreads but must partake in at some point or another: The one in which you find out whether you and your partner are on the same page romantically.

That’s right, figuring out when to have the “what are we?” talk seems to be a necessary evil for anyone in a dating situation they want to take to the next level. Common fears and concerns include everything from rejection to too displaying too much vulnerability.

So what does one do about this stressful yet often necessary situation?

How to clarify relationship status

First and foremost, make sure the time is right, says relationship expert, Rachel DeAlto. “You need to wait until there’s been some time and effort introduced,” she explains. The guru adds that reflecting on what you’re really asking for and wanting from the other person is key here.

“There are different levels of relationships,” she says. “Maybe you’re sleeping together and you are simply wanting to exclusively be intimate with that person and vice-versa — but don’t necessarily want to get married tomor

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