What is a bridal shower

There are a number of pre-wedding events that happen before the big day, but few are more exciting (and more cherished) than the bridal shower.

It's a time for the bride's nearest and dearest family friends to gather and celebrate the woman of the hour—and help prepare her for married life via plenty of encouragement and gifts. And though these parties have been happening for a fairly long time (we're talking the 16th century!), bridal shower etiquette hasevolved over the last few decades.

To help you better understand exactly what to expect from bridal showers in the 21st century—whether you're the hostess or an attendee—we went straight to the source.

Bridal shower games

Ahead, etiquette expert Diane Gottsman shares exactly what happens at a bridal shower and how to plan the perfect, etiquette-approved party.

At the end of the day, it's important to remember that this is meant to be a fun, lighthearted day for the bride.

"A bridal shower is designed to shower the bride with good wishes, congratulations, and

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